Reproduce:
1. Add an item with animations, and play them.
2. Remove the item.
3. Add it back.
4. Observe the button shows up in "Paused" state, even though it's playing.
This is because the server-side template wasn't doing anything to try to keep the play/pause button it renders in sync with the current saved state in the cookies, so it was always causing a morph to the pause state. Now we listen to the cookie instead!
I also updated the JS behavior to be a bit more consistent: treat the behavior as defaulting to true, unless it's explicitly set to the string "false".
Rather than surface the fact that pose and style are independent values, in this change we treat them as basically mutually exclusive appearance options.
If there's no alt style selected, a pose option is visibly selected instead. If there's an alt style selected, no pose option is visibly selected (even though the data model contains one), and selecting one removes the alt style.
